PRESCRIPTION FOR A MEDICAL FETISH
by Erik Jay
Sometimes it seems that plain old English and simple names for things just aren't good enough anymore, especially when it has to do with activities that embarrass certain people. When we're young and innocent and learning about our bodies (and others'), it's called "playing doctor," but the simple fact of growing up turns that into a "medical fetish."
It seems our culture is good at turning simple, straightforward and natural pastimes into actions that are somehow abnormal or unnatural. It has been pretty well established that parents who lie, distort and misrepresent the facts of sexual development can seriously damage their children. Dressing up in a lab coat or giving our sex partner a fun and inventive "physical exam" can be a tremendous turn-on, and it's unfortunate that society wants to label it a medical fetish - or label it at all - when no one gets hurt, only consenting parties are playing and it's not anyone's busy anyway.
Playing doctor was one of the rites of passage for youngsters, representing not only the birth of sexual curiosity but the first steps toward forging one's own sexual identity. Remember, this is something that children are constantly told not to do, which shows the incredible power and persuasiveness of the basic human urges, of people's powerful passions. They will not be denied.
And they don't have to be.
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It's all up to you, too, how and where and in what roles you do encounter your new partners. Whether it's a fetish with medical props or lumberjack clothes, it's all your choice. And at Date.com you will be treated with respect and understanding by other adults who understand the breadth and diversity of the human sex drive. Not only do we understand it, we like it, like you do - and like the rest of the folks who use our service.
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Written as work-for-hire for Jamie Minton Consulting, which company therefore holds all rights to the article.
